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Conversational Hypnosis: How To Make Her Dream of You All Night Long

By Krisvis On July 20, 2009 Under Dating Tips

Hypnosis is a powerful means that has helped millions of people in many aspects like losing weight, quitting smoking and getting over tragic and devastating emotional suffering. It is a wonderful and relaxing process, that opens your mind to new thoughts and allows you to easily release the stress and anxiety that has been disturbing you.

Those that have gone into a hypnotic trance will inform you of the emotional comfort and relaxation you can feel as you sit there and listen as the voice of experience, that leads you into that wonderful state that is in between alertness and relaxed and unconscious sleep.
One of the most powerful forms of hypnosis ever developed is generally referred to as covert or conversational hypnosis. Covert is a bit of a misnomer, since the doctor who created it, Milton Erickson, was a therapist, and when people came to see him, they were coming for help with a precise problem. There was nothing secret about it at all. Conversational is likely a better term, because an alternative to swinging a watch and telling the patient how sleepy they were getting, he did something different.  He would start telling stories, and by following the apparently random stories he would make up, usually on the spot, their unconscious would see in them a solution to their problems. They would leave the session, doubting what in the world just happened, and a few weeks later, they would notice that their problem had been gone for a long time.

These techniques have been taken out of the therapy room and picked up by two interesting groups of people, salespeople, and seducers of women.  Salespeople that can use the technique masterfully will make you forget you were ever in a confrontational sales situation, and permit you to feel really great for buying something new, possibly something you did not consider buying before, but now you sincerely can imagine how you ever lived with out this. In addition, the feeling continues as every time you use this, you consider those wonderful feelings they made you feel.

Seducers of women use them in a similar fashion. A girl can be sitting at a bar, talking to her friends and some strange person will come up. Maybe he is not even her type, and perhaps he starts talking to her about the usual stuff like current events, politics, or what is on the cover of People magazine. Only after about ten or twenty minutes, she starts to feel a deep link with this person. She starts to have these amazing thoughts, imagining herself and this person doing wonderful things together. Maybe two or three days later, she will still be thinking about this person, hoping that he will call, and when he does, she feels a superb rush of emotions that are usually reserved for secret lovers. That is exactly what this person has become, a secret lover.

If the relationship continues like this, and this person has ethics, and morals it can turn into a wonderful, long lasting relationship with never ending feelings of emotional fulfillment and sexual bliss.  However, just as there are unprincipled salespeople out there, there are seducers of women with less than noble intentions. Some create those feelings only to convince others to satisfy them in the short term. Just like any other skill or tool, it can be employed for good, or evil.

Conversational hypnosis can be a magnificent tool to help others and create lifelong relationships, or it can be used to develop and extract from others what you want. SO use it to your discretion, and be aware that these people, and techniques do exist.

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