How To Tell Someone They Are A Bad Kisser

So we will set the scene.  You just started dating this guy, and it has been about a month now.  You have not jumped into bed with each other yet, but you have gone far enough.  However, the thought of kissing him makes even your dog sick.  He is an awful kisser, and by awful, I mean he does not have a clue what he is doing.  Perhaps he missed the pillow or hand lessen hat we all learn in school, or maybe some stupid women told him what a great kisser he was… when they were five, and now he is dead set that there is nothing wrong.

This is actually a much more common issue then you may think. Many women simply hate the way their boyfriends kiss.  Either it is too much, or not enough, too wet or too dry, to much tongue or not enough.  Now of course we all have our differences, and we are entitled to our own opinions, but how do you tell him that you would rather kiss your grampa?

Well do not worry, we are here to help.  After you take my advice, and get the issue out in the open you can have many more months of fabulous kissing.

First, you have to be honest.  Now I do not mean tell him that you hate the way he kisses, no you will have to be a little more subtle then that.  You should tell him that you read in cosmo this month a whole bunch of new kissing moves that you really want to try.  Ask him if he would be willing to let you practice on him, or if he wants to try a few.  When he says yes, simply teach him how to kiss the way you want him to.  This is more of a sensitive route at telling him he cannot kiss.  Now you must make it a lesson, so switch up your techniques every once and a while.  Say, this is the slow version, and this is the fast one, or say they recommend that you keep your mouth closed slightly, or open more, whichever he cannot seem to do.  I always say the better you kiss, the better they will.  Make your kisses soft, and so will they.

If they fall back into their old habits, simply say, hey do not forget our lesson, or nope that is not the way cosmo said to do it.  Once they get turned on by the make out session then you will be well on your way to kissing bliss.  It can be a fun exercise for the both of you, and it is worth it if you really like the guy.

Now that you have the advice, the rest is up to you.  Go and give it a try, and you will be on your way to a more romantic, and skilled kisser in no time.  Your lips will thank me.