Meeting Women For The Shy Guy

Isn’t there a song that goes along the lines of a shy guy? Don’t worry guys because women actually find it refreshing to meet a shy guy than someone who can be overbearing and deliberating playing you.

In large crowds it is probaly not best for the shy guy to approach a woman where you need to be loud and ready for the other competition if for example the setting is in a club. The club is not the best place for someone who is shy to try to strike up conversation and make plans for a date.

To meet someone make sure you’re in a comfortable setting where you feel like yourself. Sign up for some new classes that you have been set on doing but haven’t gotten the chance to until now. Don’t set yourself up for failure by signing up for some new class you have completely no interest for.  If writing interests you join the new local writing club a new author has started or a new spring class at the local community centre. Let the new spring season be the start of learning something new. If anything you will meet new people that share the same interests. Meeting a woman that shares the same interest in you is always a plus and is an easy conversation opener if you’re taking the same class.

Let your friends know you are open to being set up with someone. If you trust your friends then you would trust who they want to set you up on a date with. If you are too shy to go alone on your date then opt for a double date where you may feel more comfortable meeting your friend’s friend in a social setting. Your friend who most likely knows you are shy can introduce you and vice versa. Ask how he or she knows your friend. If you have all met for coffee you can talk about the cafe you have met at and other great cafe places in the area. If there are 4 of you conversation will be easy and natural.

Double dating is a great way to practice your confidence. With your friends with you it’s easy to feel comfortable and at ease but take what you learned with you when you go on that new date alone. Just be relaxed and genuine. Women can see right through you if you are not being true to yourself. You can meet women anywhere. The next time you are out and about make sure you look around and just smile at a woman that you may find attractive. Smiling goes a long way. It puts you in a good mood if you weren’t to begin with and it attracts other people. Try it. When you’re at the mall, post office and wherever you may be just smile at someone and you will see it’s contagious.

In a short time you will be able to approach and meet women you are interested in. Shyness doesn’t have to be something that you fight with everyday. Just take a deep breath and relax. Do something different today that you usually don’t do like smiling at a woman and saying hello. Take it a step further the next day and instead of just a hello maybe you can ask where the business section is if you’re at the bookstore. As time goes on it will become easier and you will be on your way to meeting someone new.