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Things You Should Not Tell Her Online

By Krisvis On October 5, 2009 Under Dating Tips

Women love to browse the Internet for a prospective date, as much as men want to find the girl of their dreams online — that is the beauty of the net– you can nearly fall in love online now! So, you get geared up only to find a girl and hook up with her for real — but to no such luck. Maybe you are doing it all wrong. Better, do a small bit of research on how to seduce women online.

Let us start with the basics — maybe you are saying all the wrong things to her, and killing your every opportunity of finally finding a girl on the Internet. Below are a few things you should not tell her online and how to finally get her attracted to you:

• You should remain friends. You just met a girl who is not really that wonderful and actually ordinary — she has told you she likes you, and flat-out say to her you should remain friends. A wrong move! Have you exchanged photos? Turned on your web cam and actually spoken to her? You may not identify it, but she may be one hot babe. Stay connected with her for the next few days or better yet, ask her out on a real date.
• Maybe she has a hot best friend. She is the not-so-beautiful type and you do not actually like her, to be brutally honest. End your communication right there and then — do not push your luck and inquire if she has a hot best friend who might want to hook-up — that is killing any chance of anything at all.
• She looks fat in her photo. Girls hate it when someone says that they are fat. If she is really fat, she would be aware of it so no need to rub it in. If she is just slightly chubby or slightly big boned than average then you better not specify it — telling a girl she is fat is one certain way to get her insecurity nerves to kick in.
• You cannot meet her yet. The girl has herself taking the risk and asked you out herself — you are excited to death and determined to play a little hard to get. You told her not yet — well, there is no question why she is not replying any longer. Getting rejected online can make you uncomfortable, what more if you are a girl? Better, say you have changed your mind and ask her out on a date — right now!
• She is not your type. Then why are you still chatting up with her? Well, maybe she is nice and kind, but she will not cut it being a would-be girlfriend — women hate it to the rim when a man rejects them. If you do not like her, just cut the conversation short and inform her to catch you around and that is it — do not give her hopes that something might happen between the two of you.

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