What Women Want

It is the question that every man wants the answer to; what do women want?  It is obviously not what men want, so they stew over what it is they need to do to please their women.  Here we will go over what every man should know when it comes to women.

You see the two sexes compliment each other, and therefore are very opposite.  Women see the world through different lenses, and worry about different things then men do.  Women are a complex species of their own.  They are sensitive, but are expected to be confident.  They are emotional when they are expected to be strong willed.  No matter what women do they are constantly in a state of thought and worry, whether it is about what they are wearing, or the relationship they are in.

So when men were asked what it is they wanted to know about women, this is what they found.

When it comes to getting your girlfriend or wife in the mood there are a few things you need to keep in mind.  First, women cannot turn on a light switch to get in the mood.  As a man you have to work at this.  We need a connection, and intimacy to get into it.  A little bit of conversation is allowed so that we can feel connected to you.  This idea seems to have been lost along the way somewhere.  Treat us like real people, and not something you see in a porno flick.

When it comes to romance, a lot of men have no idea what that word even means.  It does not mean flowers and chocolate.  What it does mean is picking up on those little things that we love, and doing them.  Of curse as our society begins to move quicker and quicker this idea of romance has been lost somewhere along the way.  Not every women appreciates having the door opened for her, but the majority of us do.  These kind of things make us feel special and appreciated.

When it comes to the bedroom, it is a known fact that many women fake their enjoyment, but why?  Well it does not take a genius to figure that one out.  Do not just consider yourself in these situations.  It takes two to tango as they say.  If one person is not getting the steps then it ruins the whole performance.  However, if a women sees that you are determined and that you are trying to hard then it takes away from our experience.  We would be awful people if you worked that hard for nothing, so we lie.

You see to women sex means a whole lot more then the exchange of a few bodily fluids.  Instead to us it means everything.  It is not like shaking hands, it is a connection at a whole other level.  Next time you crawl into bed then take a minute to put yourself in our shoes.  Try to remember what sex was like in the beginning when you cherished the idea so much more.  Over time we lose this in our marriages, and as a result we lose our marriages.